Breastfeeding for Fathers

And, no, we’re not talking about medical miracles here.  But what can daddy do to be a part of the process?  Funny enough, there’s your answer: be a part of the process!  There are so many ways in which a father can help to make breastfeeding easier for both the mother and the baby!  It’s all about being there! 

What Can You Do?

·        Help gain the necessary knowledge!

Most breastfeeding classes are only attended by mothers, although fathers are more than welcome.  This means two brains are trying to retain the information necessary for later, when mommy might be a little more tired than usual!

·        Help mommy and baby get some alone time for feedings.

In the first days and weeks, there may be quite a few visitors coming to view the new baby.  Daddy can help out by insisting on privacy for feeding times.  Turn off phones, close the doors, and put out a note explaining that a little alone time is necessary right now!

·         Take over the burp!

A father’s shoulder can provide the perfect pressure to help a baby burp up, and relieve discomfort.

·        Be the feeding to sleep transition.

Sometimes babies are tired and want to sleep, but if they’re still on mommy’s chest, instinct will kick in, and they’ll begin rooting around again, even if they’re already full!  The fact that you can’t breastfeed now comes in handy, as the child will be able to calm down and fall asleep without that distraction.

·        Just sit with baby and mommy during feeding

Make eye contact with baby, stroking it, and talking softly to it are wonderful ways to connect.

·        Make sure Mommy gets fed!

New mothers can get overwhelmed with all the new responsibilities added to each and every day.  Of course, it’s doable, but things get forgotten, like eating and drinking.  Both of these are necessary not only to life in general, but especially important while breastfeeding!  Nutrients and liquids must be kept up for mother to pass them on to the child.

Being a part of feeding time, the most central part of your baby’s awareness in its first weeks of life, will keep you more closely connected to your child.  Plus, the more time you spend handling and holding you child will help you feel more at ease with, and give you confidence in, your own style of cuddling and interaction.  And your wife may appreciate the company and support your mere presence provides!

Benefits of Breastfeeding

·        No need to buy formula, as it’s always handy

·        Breastfed babies generally have fewer health problems, so fewer doctor bills

·        More sleep for you both, as a bottle doesn’t have to be prepared or waited on

·        Breastfed babies’ stools are usually easier to pass, and smell less

So, go ahead and give it a try!  So much to gain, so little to lose!